2 theory tests, 1 online revision test and fail 2 out of 3 pharmaceutical preparations again. 2 weeks in a row and now I have 4 zeros in my folio.
Had my flat meeting just now and it didn’t went well. Someone actually complain that I am making lots of noise in the morning showering (because I have class) and I slam the kitchen door in the morning on purpose just to “make sure” that she is awake as well. At least that is how she tries to put it. I don't even have my breakfast every single day of the week.
She thought all this while I am the one when there are actually 2 others boys who have morning class as well.
I mean you can’t blame people for showering and making some noise especially all the doors have door closer to ensure that all the door remain closed by itself.
If we need to stand there to close the door slowly each time we use the door so that there is no noise. That would beat the purpose of the door closer. Although sometimes the door momentum is quite huge and that can contribute to a loud bang but I am sure everyone in the unit is trying hard not to let that happen.
I can hear people closing the main door each time they went out and I can even hear footsteps whenever people is using the stairs (my bed and stairs is just separated by a layer of thin wall). So what? I still live with it.
And apparently that is not the only issue she had. So, as the meeting went on, she begin to tell out everything she is not satisfied with including calling 1 of my flat mate “sneaky”. Just imagine if someone you are living with address you sneaky because she suspect you has been using her toilet roll and stuff without her permission/behind her back just to save a few penny. Yes, even toilet roll is an issue.
I couldn’t imagine if my “baobei” would call me a sneaky person last year if I used his toilet roll or he doesn’t use any? I just don’t remember that well.
My 2 other males flat mates of course wouldn’t just keep quiet like me and of course words can be as sharp as a knife when you are angry. Of course people get defensive when they are attacked, so I even kept quiet when she changes some of the details of some ‘issue’ so that she is the good people.
Why I choose to be quiet? It is obvious that no one has issue besides her and no one could ever knock some sense into her head. I had my lesson once and that is more than enough. She just wouldn’t admit that it is her fault. When she is the defensive one, she would dare to say that it is you that being defensive. Not her, everything is not her fault at all.
So, I choose to stay neutral during the meeting. I didn’t say a single bad thing about her, surprisingly. It is good to know the real her now rather than when I become really good friends with her.
My message to her: try to do that a few more times and you might help me discover where my limit is. I am trying not to spoil the whole thing or probably the little good thing we still have. That really reminds me of Pang Hung, ex-housemate. He had to hide in his room every moment he is in the house because he is doesn’t dare to walk around the house for fear me and others would eat him alive after he doesn’t want to share the internet with us.
P/s: The flat meeting took longer than I thought it would be and I still not yet study for tomorrow’s test and being the flat representative, I would need to organize another flat meeting next week. GREAT!
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