Sometimes it is hard to let it go....

I was talking about past relationships with my friend and one of my old thoughts came to my mind again. When we speak of our past relationship, we tend to tell the whole story from a victim’s point of view. We generally talk about all the things he or she had done wrong, and all the things that could have been different, we blame on the unseasonable timing and such.

I don’t know but I guess at some point it does let us feel a little better?

It is a good thing to always try to let go when the time comes, when she does not love you anymore or when the relationship turns into a burden, a pain too much to bear with. It is never been easy to let go and deal with the grief either, to know that you have lose something you treasured and try to move on.

For one moment, the whole world seems to revolve around you and there is every single reason to be joyous about and suddenly, it felt like end of the world although it is not. Your world is falling apart and no one there to share your sorrow anymore, to give you a pat at your back and reassure you that everything would be better tomorrow and she will seal that with a kiss.

If she is never meant to be yours, you will lose her anyway. If she is, just take it as a trial for your relationship. Give you and her a chance to love another person and maybe both of you will come to love each other more. The wait is what you need sometimes for the good things to come.

Life is interesting for its paradox. When you are single and available, you longed for someone to share your life with, to take on the extra responsibility and to make your partner’s life a little different. When your relationship ended, you vow to yourself that you would never ever let yourself into a thing called love again, not until the next magical moment happens that is.


Each time we submit ourselves to someone, we thought this time it would be different. We tell ourselves this time it would be different and some of us thought we could change her, we could mold our love ones into the perfect one but often we realized we are wrong. We felt helpless but we got no one to blame.

When all the reassuring fails, we chose to deceive ourselves, to come out with some explanations, we asked ourselves what could have went wrong, what is going to happen to all those promises made under the moonlight and now, all you are left with is just another piece of memory struck in your head.

We knew the day is coming but we are afraid, we begged the time to slow down so we can come out with a solution. After exhausted every single plan, we then forced to accept the fact that she no longer belongs to you, it is too tired and we had enough. We admit defeated.


The world is full of temptation and almost everyone is replaceable, irreplaceable only at one point of your life. So look again, make sure you treasured her while you have her because at the end of the day, that is all that matters. Time wait for no one. Tell them you love them when you still have the chance.

The worthy ones would not let your tears roll down like a rain. Letting go someone who does not love you is painful but it is the correct thing to do. You are losing someone who does not value you. You are not losing much after all compared to her losing someone who loves her.

The wound will heals one day. You do not need the pain.


Recently one of my friends just broke up too and I did not even know that he started a relationship. Yes I was talking about you [insert your name here], no doubt. Perhaps I would not need to know, perhaps you would not want me to tease you about it or it is of a reason I could not think of. No matter what it is, I am fine with it. You have too much on your plate already and because I care about your well being and not just your relationships. Call it bleeding love but move on.