Let’s analyse some of the thoughts people shared with me.
One day at the cafeteria,
“I think it is not hard to get a girlfriend, just look at the amount of girls around us.” O.o
Yes, there are tons of girls out there but I bet none of them have even slight interest coupling with you. The hardest part is how you confessed your feelings. Refer here.
One day in my flat,
“You know what? Men(husband) should be able to earn lots of money so that we girls can spend all we want.”
Now, what happen to Gender equality in this case? I don’t mind my spouse spending my money but that is not the sole purpose of a husband. Seriously, what is wrong with girls nowadays? A little materialistic doesn’t hurt but is that even a reason to get married?
Quote from jess’s blog,
“Does fairy-tale like love story still exist in reality?”
Certainly no. There is a reason we called it fairy tale in the first place right. Maybe you get something close to that in the beginning but it wouldn’t last long.
Quote from keng’s blog,
“一个人怕寂寞， 两人又嫌太多”
When you found the right one, there is enough space even for 200 people. You wished you are single only when problem arises. I still believe in trial-and-error.
Quote from here,
只要有爱，男女间谁都不愿放手一段仅仅说了句“分手”的感情。 所以，说一次“分手”，就真的分手了。只证明一件事：这个男人，是真的不爱你。
Translation: As long as there is love, couples will always end up being together again despite one of them muttered “lets break up”. If both of you break up just because of that phase, he does not love you anymore.
Quote from here,
Common excuses boys use to end their relationship.
“Let’s just be brothers and sisters, I will always care about you and still take good care of you.”
“I love you but I can’t go against my parents.”
“You are too good for me and I don’t deserve it. “
“Stop being nice to me as I can’t give you anything in return.”
“I don’t think we are suitable for each other.”
Other than the last one, seriously I think the rest are excuses. The real reason is that boy doesn’t love you anymore.
Always choose to end your relationship instead of wasting time working on something that is not possible. Beliefs and thoughts (想法)are the most important factor in maintaining a relationship. At least that is how I look at it.
Biology quiz was tough for me. Time to pull up my socks.
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