Long story short, a boy shared two things just now.
“According to b**le, it is a blessing to her and her family when we are together.”
“I knew it was a blessing for me when we broke up.”
I kept quiet although I disagree. The very first thought in my mind, “How could he think that he is on the losing side?”.
Relationship is not a business or a transaction and certainly his relationship is not some ill-fated or fail-to-profit business.
I believe both people should be held responsible for any break up that happened. Just like what the famous Chinese proverb said, “You can’t clap using just one hand”.
That reminds me to what miss E said to me one night
“Please do not hate her”
We were talking about past relationships.
I was like “Huh?”
still trying to understand the-out-of-a-sudden-words she said at that time.
I guess she is just being herself, a girl’s perspective.
Another time, miss E asked me
“How long does it take for a boy to forget the girl?”
I replied “Two months?”
She looked at me with a little disappointment in her face “So quick?”
I continued “I think two months is still a little too long.”
Well, EASIER SAID THAN DONE. There wouldn’t be a correct answer to her Q. Whole world seems to collapse and breakups are tough. Most of the time, let bygones be bygones.
Time will heal the wound. Eventually you will forgive. Life still goes on.
I do realize that when someone is in love, they tend to blog about all the sweet and touching things about love. When time is tough, they blog about all the difficulties and obstacles along the journey and when they end a relationship, they blog about they would rather remain single and never involved in a relationship. The honey and poison.
That is life.
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