And let me tell you that’s the good news, because wasting time with the wrong person is just time wasted. And when you do move on and find your right person, believe me, you’re not going to wish you had gotten to spend more time with Stinky the Time-Waster or Freddy the Cant-Remember-to-Call.
The old-fashioned idea is that women withhold sex whenever they want power. It seems like men can play that game too. Why buy the cow when you can get the intimacy for free, it’s so simple. If a guy is happy lying around in bed with you eating cookies and watching old movies, and aren’t gay, then he is just not that into you.
It was a good movie and the book was so much better than the movie. I was sitting on a comfortable black leather couch, going through the bald truth Greg Behrendt laid in front of my eyes. It took me a while to finally consort with him without resistance. I was in denial, avoiding and evading and finally it just hit me in the face. I am a hypocrite and because I am a male, I am merely trying to defend my species and myself.
When a guy likes a girl, he wants to constantly be touching the girl (quoting from the book), he will remember to call, and he will want to have sex, bring her out for a date; he will marry her, he will remember to call, he will not be too afraid to start a new relationship etc. There are no excuses and it is that simple. However, getting the girls to think that they are one of the nines and not the exception, they are the rule is so difficult because the truth is hard to bear.
There should be a she is just not that into you getting published in near future, I am not the only one desiring an even playing field out there, an arena without any favoritism.
When one reads enough of what a male should and should not do, it is time to crossover and be a spy, play the game like a female; infiltrate their game plan and look at what the top manipulator master mind is doing to all the poor puppet guys.
If it is going to be without any deception or bias, someone has to do the dirty job – exposing nothing but the truth. It is one of the oddest things to read what the XXs think of the XYs and I am not denying the so-called truth. I tried but all the books are preaching the same truth, I felt helpless and I have to submit to them.
I could only blame it on the evolution because according to the gurus, the XYs are after only three things, sex, sex, and more sex. There isn’t even a mouthful of words but who has the right to find fault with the one reason purpose humans are still not extinct yet, the XYs simply and engineered and wired to pass down the genes, the one simple concept from the early days, the cavemen era.
The women are no longer taking up the passive role, they are the aggressor now. The modern guys are timid and they need an extra push once in a while. Women are taking on the
Women just have to make the few initial steps and let the guy finishes the job. Drop hints is all what you have to do. Nothing is easy but if women choose to let nature takes its course all the time, aren’t they withholding that women do not deserve the equal right to be loved and fight for the chance to be loved? Who is going to talk behind your back if you have your Mr Right to stand up for you? Teary nights because your soul mate marries someone other than you should be a thing of the past. Fight and at least you tried.
You have only one enemy – yourself. Everyone has fear, fear for the unknowns and all the “what if” kicks in but you have take control of your life. If you don’t, who is going to fight for you? Cupid is faulty for sure or maybe Cupid is too busy to cater for everyone.
I was beside her. She was reading the I myth. I was in a dilemma. A choice of exposing her to the tidy sum of information I have with me or to let her remain untainted. The big fat ugly and horrifying truth will get back to me one day, one day the plan will backfire and it will be me shooting myself in my legs. Should I play fair instead and try to outdo her each time? The best man will take all the glory and rewards. Either way, I am on the losing side.
When a guy does foolish thing, he is in love.
She is just not that into you, I am counting on you.
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