I beg to differ; the first thought in my mind is that the relationship will come to an end one day. Imagine you are in a relationship with someone across the globe, how would that be considered a relationship instead of intense emotional torture? This is not a fairy tale, happy endings are for the exceptions and we are the rule.
None of them asked for my two cents of course, and I have learned that if you have nothing nice to say about a relationship, just keep your mouth tight and shut; if you are asked, you are obliged to say only positive comments. Obviously no one would need my pragmatic view; a side of me Jacys claimed girls would hate me for and I agree.
According to her, he is going to try to get into exchange programme, only this time to Japan. I have no idea how long the e-mails, phone calls, chatting or skpe-ing are going to fuel their relationship but eventually do they not require the real presence of the other half, their soul mate standing in front of them?
All the lonely nights and they are left with only memories, sweet past memories instead of cuddling and be in each others’ arms. All the intimate acts of their friends would only remind of their unfortunate, not so? And admiring the same moon under the same sky at a different place is not romantic, because they are struck with it. Who would admit their grapes are actually sour?
The more sacrifices one made in a relationship, the harder it is to move on. One of them will fall for someone else sooner or later, and what about the other previous destined half? Long distance relationship requires more commitment, dedication and effort than usual; ultimately one of them would reach the point of burned out.
It does not hurt to be realistic sometimes. The chemicals in their brain are going to wear-off one day, a matter of time, and so what then? Who could they turn to?
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